This little thing called HappYness ..

What makes us happy ?

The people, the new car, the new phone, girlfriend, best friend or anything else related to us.. No.. They are just a part of our Lives and somehow we have to live with it and more than that we have adapted to these things..

We may often find ourselves scrolling down on our facebook , instagram, whats app etc to see what there is going on in other people’s lives. It gives us a brief idea how people are doing in their lives and the things they are related to or the things they are mostly with. Stop here.. Why should we think about it and why does we make ourselves oriented to other people’s lives and why should we think about others. We shouldn’t..

We have to be self centered, we have to be practical, we have to be obsessed with the things that benefit us and these are the things that play a big part to please us.

Expectations and imaginations often hurt the people, as we know. Do we really know why? It’s because for these things we have to rely on others and think for a while why they should care for us. People will change and yes they have to because change is the law of nature. We should practically stop expecting from others. Enjoy the time you spent with them, party together, shout at 3.25AM but don’t expect that person to be always by your side.

Content, are we?

I consider this thing the most influential thing to be happy in your life. If we have everything, every luxury, every comfort and despite all these things we feel like we aren’t content , we can’t be happy. We will just have timely pleasure that ends soon. What makes us to be content ? Accept yourself for what you are and what you have and make your own circle where you stand at the center of the center and the area under your diameter are the things that you have. Don’t think outside the circle rather try to expand your area from within, by utilizing that you have without having a concern for what is happening outside. It may rain , it may be overcast, it may snow, it may hail but remember the sun will rise someday …… Love ..